Point. Though I was trying to focus through small haze of alcohol, to which I am relatively unused. And I can only charm women within the English speaking logosphere: I fall somewhat flat in Slovenian, being reduced to simple grunts and hand gestures, few of which possess charm of and in themselves.
Give me a woman who speaks the language of Shakespeare, however, and I have my chance. Give me a woman who has read some Shakespeare and I will, in most cases fancy my chances, be I ever so plain of feature. Or is that Braggadocio?